Yesterday was a rough day. It made me realize I am quickly losing my mobility and independence. I fear I am losing my ability to take care of my own kids every day.
On Facebook, there is a Cerebral Palsy Support Group page. Sometimes they post member questions, so that other people that have experienced similar problems can provide ideas and insight. So I sent them a question. They haven’t replied to me or posted my question, but I wanted to ask all of you. Maybe some or one of you is experiencing this. Or maybe you have a friend or acquaintance that has dealt with it. My question was this:
“I have CP, I’m married, and I have 2 kids, ages 8 & 1. I can walk, but as time goes by, it is increasingly difficult and painful. Cooking is especially difficult. When I say cooking, this includes even simple things like making sandwiches. I used to be able to clean ok, but that is getting much harder, as is chasing around my 1 year old son. Sometimes we sit in the car and watch movies, just so he is buckled down and happy, so I can sit down for a while. My husband works as a cook and I have been on disability for a year. I have a wheelchair, but my house is small, and it doesn’t fit through the hall or doorways, or around the kitchen table, or really even around the living room. And of course, it doesn’t reach the kitchen counters or stove. I’ve tried cooking from a stool, but having to get up and down a lot is worse than standing and walking, so that doesn’t work. I can tell I am rapidly losing mobility, and I don’t know what to do to be able to take care of my house and my kids. I was wondering if anyone else is going through this and what do they do?”
Please, chime in 🙂
The obvious answer would be to hire a someone to cook and clean for me, but I don’t have the resources right now. To my fellow Americans, would any type of insurance or government program cover anything like this?
What do I do?
**Please keep answers polite, any mean-spirited responses will be deleted. Thank you :)**